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"You shall not
bear false witness against your neighbor."
Exodus 20:1-17; Colossians 3:1-11 |
John
Mabray
April 2, 2000 |
THE PRAYER FOR ILLUMINATION
Gracious Father, Your Word is truth, and Your Son is
the Truth in human flesh and blood; so help us, we
pray, to be people of the Truth: people who heed the
truth, speak the truth, and walk in the truth. Teach
us, by the power of Your Spirit, to follow Your
decrees, and we will keep them to the end. Give us
understanding, by Your Spirit, and we will keep Your
law and obey it with all our hearts. Direct us in
the path of Your commands, and there we will find
our delight. By the power of Your Spirit, renew our
lives according to Your Word; through Jesus Christ
our Lord. Amen.
THE ASCRIPTION OF PRAISE
"Worthy is the Lamb who was slain to receive
power and riches and wisdom, and strength, and
honor, glory, and blessing" — praise be to Jesus
Christ! Amen.
THE SERMON
As Pastor Etheridge said last
Lord’s Day, "What could be easier ...what could
be easier than to tell Christians not to steal?"
Likewise, what could be easier ...than to tell
Christians not to lie, to tell
the truth, especially with regard to our
neighbor, whom we are commanded to love as we love
ourselves. The Ninth Commandment is "You shall
not bear false witness against your neighbor."
Though this commandment has specific reference to
false testimony against another person, it also
applies generally to all matters of our speech, what
we say. The Children’s Catechism says it
simply and clearly: The Ninth Commandment teaches us
"Always to tell the truth."
Truth-telling is at the heart
of godly character, because truth-telling is one of
the character attributes of God: His Word is Truth
(John 17:17). God cannot lie;
it is impossible for God to lie because falsehood is
alien to His eternal being (Titus
1:2; Hebrews 6:18). Jesus Christ is the
living, human embodiment of Eternal Truth
(John 14:6), and in the Book
of the Revelation, Jesus is identified by the name
"Faithful and True" (Revelation 19:11). So,
remember, the Ninth Commandment is all about godly
character — godly character being exemplified in us;
for we were created in God’s image to reflect His
holy character for the sake of His glory; and we
have been redeemed by the blood of His Son, and by
"the word of truth" (James 1:18), in order that we
might "walk in the light as He is in the light"
(1st John 1:7), and
"put off falsehood and speak truthfully to (our)
neighbor," (Ephesians 4:25)
and "slander no one" (Titus 3:2).
And consider this: if
truth-telling is a matter of godly-character,
reflecting an eternal attribute of God Himself, then
what is lying, truth-twisting? Every time we twist
the truth, every time we tell a lie, and in any way
engage in deceit and duplicity, we are acting as the
disciples of the devil. Satan is, first of all, a
liar. Jesus called Satan, "the father of lies,"
saying,
...(the devil)
has nothing to do with the truth, because there is
no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native
language (according to his own character), for he is
a liar and the father of lies (John 8:44).
You remember that it was by a
sly and subtle twisting of the truth that Satan
deceived Eve in the Garden of Eden. Anytime we twist
the truth, or craftily deceive our neighbor, we are
boldly imitating Satan; and anytime we tell a lie,
we are choosing to conform our character to Satan’s
evil character, to our eternal peril. And our lies
are most like Satan’s lies when they are most
subtle, sly, artful, and elusive, and intended to
put a smear on someone else. Only a very desperate
person, or a very stupid person, or perhaps a very
powerful and well-protected person will tell an
out-and-out "bold-faced" lie. And though we may not
tell such outright, naked lies, we are natural
masters of the art of deception. How often do we
play "mind games," even with our friends,
colleagues, and spouse, in order to "shade the
truth"? Listen: little lies are Satanic lies, and in
God’s ears, all lying is serious business, as
serious as spiritual death.
Romans 1 gives us the divine
diagnosis of the fallen human condition, and strife,
deceit, malice, gossip, and slander are listed right
along and right beside sexual perversion and murder
as illustrations of human sinful depravity. It is no
wonder, then, that the Scripture says that the LORD
hates and detests "...a lying tongue ...(and) a
false witness who pours out lies, and a man who
stirs up dissension among brothers" (Proverbs
6:16-19), and Proverbs 19:5 gives the warning that
"A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who
pours out lies will not escape."
But God is always good, and
God’s law is always good, and God’s good law is
always for our good. The Ninth
Commandment, "You shall not bear false witness
against your neighbor," is God’s good law, given
to protect, preserve, and promote truth in society
and truth in our relationships, to protect and to
preserve the good name and reputation of our
neighbor, and our own name and reputation. Without
truth, there is no justice in society. Without
truth, there is no foundation for freedom in
society. Without truth there is no trust in human
relationships. Where there is no respect for the
truth, then there is falsehood and lying, darkness,
deceit, and duplicity, gossip and slander, chaos and
confusion, and injustice. Proverbs 16:27-28 says
that,
A scoundrel plots evil, and
his speech is like a scorching fire.
A perverse man stirs up
dissension, and a gossip separates close friends.
Therefore, the Ninth
Commandment forbids all forms of gossiping,
suspicioning, and ill-speaking which are intended to
hurt another person, stir up strife, separate
friends, or make ourselves look good by comparison.
Now, as the Church of Jesus
Christ, the people of God, we are called to live as
people of the truth, who speak the truth, and live
according to the truth, and who careful to protect
the truth about others. Christ’s character of truth,
to which we are called to be conformed, is
beautifully expressed in Psalm 15:1-3:
Lord, who may dwell in Your
sanctuary? Who may live on Your holy hill?
He whose walk is blameless,
and who does what is righteous,
who speaks the truth from his
heart, and has no slander on his tongue,
who does his neighbor no
wrong, and casts no slur on his fellow man ... .
Colossians 3:9, addressed to
us, Christian believers, says
Now, (because
we belong to Christ), you must rid yourselves of all
such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander,
and filthy language from your mouth. Do not lie to
each other, since you have taken off your old self
with its practices and have put on the new self,
which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of
its Creator (Colossians 3:9-10).
In conformity with Christ’s
character of truth and love, we are to relate to one
another in truth and love, and specifically, among
other things, this means that we not speak ill of
one another, that we have nothing to do with gossip
and rumor-mongering, and that we take no delight —
no delight — in hearing a bad report about someone
else.
Many of you probably remember
the old saying, "If you can’t say something good
about someone, then don’t say anything at all."
Well, in a way, really, that rule is a guideline for
Christian civility and Christian charity. It is
intended to teach us to treat others as we ourselves
would want to be treated by them. You don’t like the
idea of being "talked about" negatively, do you?
Well, then, you ought not to talk negatively about
others. It is particularly unbecoming for
Christians, because as Christians we know that we
are sinners ever in need of grace and mercy — which
means that I know, without a doubt, I know that
there is plenty of negative "stuff" about me that
you could say — and you could say it without
bearing false witness, according to the letter of
the law; it would be true! And I need to remember
that, lest I slip, lest I fail to obey the spirit of
the law, lest I fail to follow the Spirit of Christ,
and begin to speak unkindly about you.
But, it is not enough for us
not to gossip or not to speak ill of someone
else — we should not even listen to malicious
slander or ill-speaking about another. Proverbs 17:4
says, "A wicked man listens to evil lips; a liar
pays attention to a malicious tongue." The
message is clear: don’t be a party to gossip and
destructive rumor. If the matter is a serious one,
and needs to be dealt with, and in some way relates
to you, then go privately to that person in
question. But don’t get caught on the "party line,"
or in the rumor mill, or in the feeding frenzy of
blood-thirsty, gossip-hungry sharks.
And what about this: do you
ever have those "imaginary encounters" — imaginary
conversations in which you "imagine" what another
person might have said, or imaginary scenarios in
which you imagine what the other person might have
done, putting a negative light on that other person?
The problem is that if we dwell on those imaginary
encounters, and let our imagination run away with
us, we will begin to believe and act and feel as if
those imaginary conversations and scenarios really
happened; and that’s just what Satan wants us to do.
The fault-finding imagination is the devil’s
playground. Satan wants us to find fault with one
another, he wants us to believe the worst about each
other, he wants us to know and believe how much
better we are and how much more right we are than
everyone else. And so Satan is very happy when we
are quick to find fault, or just to imagine fault,
so that, in our minds, we begin to destroy one
another and tear down the Body of Christ. Many
marriage conflicts take place in the realm of the
imagination, as spouses, in anger, hurt, and
frustration, falsely accuse one another, but never
communicate the truth in love.
But we, in Christ, have been
called into the way of truth and peace and love.
Proverbs 10:12 says that "Hatred stirs up
dissension, but love covers all wrongs." Proverbs
17:9 says that "He who covers over an offense
promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter
separates close friends." Now, those proverbs do
not mean that we should cover-up someone
else’s wrong-doing and sin to enable them to get
away with it. But it is a word of wisdom teaching us
to deal graciously and charitably with our brothers
and sisters, in love, not wishing for their faults
to ruin their reputation, not seeking ways to expose
their faults, or blow them out of proportion, not
taking the opportunity to hold their faults against
them and turn other people against them. In Christ,
we are called to forbear with one another, to be
patient and long-suffering with one another. First
Peter 4:8 says it beautifully: "Above all, love each
other deeply, because love covers a multitude of
sins." And, as First Corinthians 13:4-5 says, "Love
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all
things, endures all things"; therefore, loving one
another in Christ means bearing with and enduring
the faults of one another, and believing and hoping
the best about and for one another.
Now, of course: there is a
time for confronting our brother or sister with the
truth about the sin in his or her life, but when we
do that, we are to speak directly to that person,
and to speak the truth in love, to restore that
person. And yes, there is a time and place for the
reporting of wrong-doing to a rightful authority,
and giving a true report to a rightful authority is
the right thing to do — in the home, in the school,
in the church, and in the world at large. Speaking
directly to the other person, or, if need be,
speaking to a rightful authority, is an appropriate
way of observing the Ninth Commandment. And if a
rightful authority calls us to testify on a matter
then we must speak the truth, the whole truth, and
nothing but the truth. The Ninth Commandment
requires us to speak the truth, defend the truth,
promote the truth: because we serve the God of
truth, who will judge us and all people in
righteousness and truth.
That Judge is Jesus Christ. He
is the Living Word of Eternal Truth — the human
embodiment of eternal truth. Yet, think about it: if
ever slander was spoken against a man, if evil
gossip was ever whispered against a man, if false
accusations were ever hurled against a man, if false
witnesses ever conspired against a man, it was
against this Man, Jesus Christ, who lived the life
of perfect truth, yet who was unjustly condemned and
crucified by wicked liars. As the Scripture says,
"He committed
no sin, and no deceit was found in His mouth." When
they hurled their insults at Him, He did not
retaliate; when He suffered, He made no threats.
Instead, He entrusted Himself to Him who judges
justly. He Himself bore our sins in His body on the
tree, so that we might die to sin and live for
righteousness; by His wounds you have been healed (1st
Peter 2:22-24).
This is the mystery of the
gospel — this is the mystery of Good Friday and
Easter Sunday, the mystery of amazing grace: that it
was for our malicious slander, our Satanic lies, our
false witness, our gossip and ill-speaking that
Jesus was condemned to the cross, and for which He
died. And the gospel — the good news — is that the
Judge of righteousness and truth is also the Savior
of mercy and grace. And He calls us even now to
repent of all our lying ways, to speak the truth to
one another, to speak the truth in public and in
private, to speak the truth in love just as He
speaks the truth in love. Remember: the Ninth
Commandment is a matter of character — and if we
claim Christ as our Savior then we must follow Him
as our Lord and we must imitate Him as our example,
and our character must be conformed to His
character, by His grace. And as we praise Him and
pray to Him this morning, may we also consecrate our
lips to His glory, so that our lips speak only the
truth, to the glory of the eternal God of
everlasting Truth. Amen. |