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"You
Shall Not Commit Adultery"
Exodus 20:1-17; Matthew 5:27-32 |
John
Mabray
March 19, 2000 |
THE PRAYER FOR ILLUMINATION
Eternal holy Father, we thank You that You have sent
Your only-begotten Son into the world, not to
condemn the world but that the world through Him
might be saved. In His name, and for His sake, we
pray that You will now send forth Your Spirit to
empower the preaching of Your Word, and that by the
power of Your Spirit, You will speak to us. Illumine
our minds spiritually, enlighten the eyes of our
hearts, give us ears to hear, and souls to believe
the truth and grace of Your Word to us through Your
Son Jesus Christ. Direct us in the path of Your
commands, that there we will find our delight. Turn
our eyes away from worthless things, and renew our
lives according to Your Word, for the glory of Your
name. Amen.
THE ASCRIPTION OF PRAISE
To Him who loves us,
and who has freed us from our sins by His blood, to
Jesus Christ, be all praise, honor, and glory. Amen!
THE SERMON
Have mercy
upon me, O God,
according to Your
lovingkindness;
according to the multitude of
Your tender mercies,
blot out my transgressions.
Wash me thoroughly from my
iniquity,
and cleanse me from my sin.
For I acknowledge my
transgressions,
and my sin is always before
me.
Against You, You only, have I
sinned, and done this evil in Your sight;
that you may be found just
when You speak, and blameless when You judge.
Create in me a clean heart, O
God, and renew a right spirit within me.
Do not cast me away from Your
presence,
and do not take Your Holy
Spirit from me.
Restore me to the joy of Your
salvation, and uphold me by Your generous Spirit.
O Lord, open my lips, and my
mouth shall show forth Your praise.
The sacrifices of God are a
broken spirit, a broken and contrite heart:
these, O God, You will not
despise.
(Psalm 51,
selected verses)
"Have mercy upon me, O God,
according to Your lovingkindness ... ."
This is the prayer of an adulterer, the plea for
mercy of a man convicted of his sin before God. This
is the prayer of King David, after the prophet
Nathan confronted him about his adultery with
Bathsheba — an adulterous affair which ultimately
led to the premeditated murder of her husband,
Uriah.
Psalm 51 has become for
Christians a model prayer of confession; we often
say it in unison, or sing it, as our Prayer of
Confession in worship. Even though King David
lived one-thousand years before Jesus was born, he
understood the gospel. David understood what it
meant to be saved by grace through faith in a
Savior who could cleanse him of his sin. He
understood that what helpless, hopeless sinners need
is mercy — mercy, mercy, mercy — mercy, pure
and free: the undeserved mercy of the Sovereign God
who is the Holy Judge, before whom no secrets are
hid.
I want to begin here today,
with the gospel: the gospel of undeserved mercy
toward sinners who have no place to hide. I want to
begin here, with the gospel: the gospel of cleansing
for those whose souls are stained with sin. I want
to begin here, with the gospel: the gospel of
healing for broken hearts, the gospel of hope for
broken spirits, the gospel of forgiveness for the
guilty. I want to begin here today, with the gospel
of Jesus Christ: the gospel — the good news
— of great grace for great sinners.
This great gospel of great
grace for great sinners is beautifully set forth for
us in Holy Scripture in John 8, the account of "the
woman caught in adultery" (John 8:1-11). The
teachers of the law and the Pharisees (the religious
authorities, the "good men" of the community)
brought her to Jesus in the midst of a large crowd,
and said, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the act
of adultery. In the Law, Moses commanded us to stone
such women. Now, what do you say?"
It was a trap, a set-up by
which they were trying to trick Jesus into
contradicting the Law of Moses. Jesus bent down and
wrote on the ground with his finger. Now, we don’t
know what He wrote. What is significant, though, is
that image of Jesus’ writing on the ground with His
finger — bringing to mind that the Scripture says
that the Ten Commandments were "written with the
finger of God" (Exodus 31:18). That invisible finger
of God, which inscribed the Ten Commandments on
tablets of stone on Mount Sinai, was now made
visible in the flesh and blood of Jesus Christ. The
scribes and Pharisees were asking Him a trick
question about the Law of God, and Jesus’ first
response was a symbolic one, writing with His finger
on the stony ground of Jerusalem. They did not know
who they were dealing with. They did not know that
they were face-to-face with the One who had written
the Law of God.
It is important, very
important, for us to see how Jesus Christ deals with
helpless, hopeless sinners who look to Him for
mercy. First of all, Jesus made no excuses for this
woman. She was guilty, caught in the act, and Jesus
offered her no defense. He did not dispute the fact
that, under Old Testament Law, she deserved to die.
And He did not object to that Law. He did not act as
her defense attorney. He acted as her Savior. And He
showed her, and her accusers, that the God of
justice is also the God of grace for sinners who
cast themselves upon His mercy.
Jesus said, "He who is without
sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first."
Now, who was it there in that crowd who was "without
sin"? Who was in a position to condemn her? Was
there a sinless man there? Yes, there was. Jesus. He
was the One "without sin," and He was the One who
could have justly cast the first stone. But He
didn’t, because the God of holy justice is also the
God of undeserved mercy who came into the world "to
seek and to save the lost, and to give His life as a
ransom for many" [Luke 19:10; Matthew
20:28].
After the Pharisees and the
whole crowd dropped their stones and walked away,
Jesus was alone with the woman — and the woman was
alone with Jesus. That’s where we find the freedom
of forgiveness; that’s where we find the joy of a
new life — when we find ourselves alone,
face-to-face, with Jesus. Alone with Jesus: with no
one to take up for us, with no one to explain our
situation from another point of view. Alone with
Jesus: with no excuses, no explanations, no
rationalizations. That’s where we find forgiveness,
mercy pure and free. All alone with Jesus: and we
look into His holy, all-seeing eyes of justice, and
we see His tender, loving eyes of mercy.
Jesus said to her, "Woman,
where are they? Has no one condemned you?"
"No one, Sir," she said.
"Then neither do I condemn
you," Jesus declared. "Go, and sin no more,"
which is to say,
"Go, and live a new life in my
grace. I have set you free from the slavery of sin."
Jesus did not condemn that
woman caught in adultery, not because He felt sorry
for her in some pitiful human sense, not because He
is "soft on sin," or "tolerant" of sin, and not
because He thought that she needed a "second
chance." Remember: sinners do not deserve
mercy. Sinners deserve justice.
And God is just when He judges sin. And God is
gracious when He bestows mercy upon sinners. And in
Jesus Christ, God, the Holy One of Israel, who wrote
the Ten Commandments on tablets of stone with His
invisible finger, has come into the world in flesh
and blood to bear His own holy curse upon sin under
His own Law, so that His justice upon sin might be
satisfied completely and His mercy upon sinners
might be poured forth freely. Jesus took that
woman’s condemnation upon Himself. On the cross, He
died her death for her, for her sin. And she, by
faith in Him, received great grace, free mercy, and
a new life to live for the glory of God. Dear
friends, that is the gospel of great grace for great
sinners through Jesus Christ, and that is the reason
that the Scripture says, "There is, therefore,
now no condemnation for those who are in Christ
Jesus," and "if anyone is in Christ, he is a
new creation" (Romans 8:1; 2nd
Corinthians 5:17).
Now, if there is anybody here
today who needs to be forgiven, freely; if there is
anybody here today who has a guilty blot upon his or
her soul which needs to be washed clean; if there is
anybody here today who needs mercy, mercy, mercy —
mercy pure and free and undeserved — then I know,
and I declare to you, a Savior who has suffered the
infinite wrath of a holy God to satisfy His justice
and to purchase redemption for you. If there is
anybody here who needs that kind of forgiveness from
this kind of Savior, I say to you: "Behold the Lamb
of God, who takes away the sin of the world!"
[John 1:29].
Is there anybody here today
who needs that kind of Savior— a Savior who suffers
in your stead, bears your guilt, dies your death,
cleanses you of all your iniquities, and gives you a
new life? I estimate that there are three-hundred to
four-hundred sinners in this sanctuary right now who
are desperately in need of undeserved mercy: that
is, one-hundred percent of us. Is this sermon on The
Seventh Commandment, "You shall not commit
adultery," addressed to particular individuals? No.
It is not addressed to particular individuals.
Yes, it is addressed to particular
individuals; it is addressed to you ... and to me.
God is good, and God’s Law is
good, and God’s good Law is always for our
good. In the beginning, when God created His
good world, and created Man — male and female — in
His own image for His own glory, He ordained and
instituted the holy covenant of marriage. The
covenant of marriage is the foundational building
block of human society. In the beginning, God
blessed the union of man and woman in the covenant
of marriage, and said to them, "Be fruitful and
multiply" [Genesis 1:28].God
created us to be sexual creatures, and He blessed
the sexual union of husband and wife. But sexual
union is more than a matter of physical union for
the purposes of procreation; sexual union is that
symbolic expression of the union of heart and soul
and mind and spirit of husband and wife. This is the
reason that Adam rejoiced when God brought Eve to
him, and he exclaimed, "This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh!" [Genesis
2:23]. And so the Scriptures declare that "a
man shall leave his father and mother and be joined
to his wife, and they shall become one flesh"
(Genesis 2:24).
I will develop this theme more
thoroughly in the sermon for this evening, Lord
willing. But for now, the point is simply to see
that the marriage of man and woman is a holy bond
instituted by God at the dawn of creation, and
sexual union in marriage is God’s good gift to
husbands and wives, for their own blessing and for
the good of human society. And, therefore, the
Seventh Commandment is God’s good Law to protect us
and to protect and to preserve His good gift to us
and to human society.
Do not be deceived by
Hollywood. Adultery is no light matter. And adultery
is never good and never right, and no good thing can
ever come from it. Do not follow your heart, for
your Creator knows your heart, and He has said, "The
heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately
wicked" (Jeremiah 17:9). And there is hardly
anything so deceitful in the human heart as the
illusion of illicit romance. Lust is a delusion, an
erotic dream that becomes a living nightmare. Just
as idolatry is spiritual adultery, so adultery is
spiritual idolatry. Think of how we use the words,
faithful, unfaithful, fidelity, infidelity —
words we use to describe our relationship with God,
words which describe our relationship to our spouse.
And the reason for that is that marriage is to be a
flesh and blood picture of our relationship to God
(and that’s another point which I will develop more
fully in tonight’s sermon, Lord willing). But the
point here is: Do not be deceived by the devil and
his lies, and do not be deceived by the "wisdom of
this world" — adultery is sin which reaches back all
the way to the beginning when God created Man, male
and female, because it violates God’s holy purposes
for His institution of marriage. Adultery,
therefore, is the trashing of God’s good gift.
Adultery is a rebellious response to God’s goodness
toward us. Adultery destroys marriages, families,
lives, hopes, and dreams. Adultery is finally
self-destructive, for every time we violate holy
vows and break covenant promises, we commit a kind
of suicide of the soul, and we give ourselves over
to the "father of lies," the devil, whose only
purpose is to "steal and kill and destroy" your soul
(John 8:44;10:10). And the Seventh Commandment
applies not only to literal adultery but to every
kind of sexual immorality, including fornication and
sodomy and licentious attitudes and provocative
innuendo. Therefore, "be vigilant, because your
enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion
seeking whom he may devour" (1st Peter
5:8).
But we have not truly, fully
kept the Seventh Commandment simply by not
committing literal, physical adultery or other
sexual sin. Jesus said that "out of the heart come
evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual
immorality, theft, false testimony, slander"
[Matthew 15:19]. Adultery,
then, is a matter of the heart as well as our
actions. In our fallen nature, corrupted by sin, we
have within us all it takes to be an adulterer. And
maybe that is the reason that pornography is a
billion-dollar industry, and millions of nice people
vicariously violate the Law of God by watching
sexually explicit movies.
As is murder, so adultery is a
matter of the heart, a spiritual issue. God looks
upon the heart, and the law of God judges the heart
and mind of man. And whether we have ever actually
committed literal adultery is not the issue, not
ultimately. How can I say that? Because Jesus did.
Jesus, the true Teacher of the Law, greater than
Moses, declared the Law of God from the Mount, and
by His Spirit, He writes His Law upon the hearts of
His people, saying:
You have heard that it was
said, "Do not commit adultery." But I tell you that
anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already
committed adultery with her in his heart"
[Matthew 5:28].
And so now, with the words of
Jesus, we see the truth of God’s indictment upon all
humanity, that "there is none righteous, no not
one." This adultery in the heart can occur in
various ways, not only with the leering, lustful
eye, but also through emotional adultery: in
relationships in which appropriate boundary lines
are crossed by intimacy of conversation, by sharing
of secrets and feelings, by spending too much time
together at work, and by becoming too much of a
"good friend" to someone who is not your spouse.
It is a very slippery slope. And the
devil has his way of weaving his web ... especially
now on the worldwide web. Now there is even such a
thing as Internet adultery. Get out of the "chat
room," and don’t go back.
Positively, keeping the
Seventh Commandment means not only not committing
adultery. It means treasuring your marriage.
Husbands, it means loving your wives as Christ loved
the church. Wives, it means respecting your
husbands, and submitting to their leadership. It
means that husbands and wives give their bodies over
to one another, in purity, faithfulness, and love,
meeting the healthy sexual desires of one another.
It also means honoring and protecting the marriages
of others, and teaching our children that their
sexuality is to be consecrated to God for His glory,
in submission and obedience to the Lord Jesus
Christ, who is the beloved Bridegroom and Savior of
His people, the Church. (More on the positive
keeping of the Seventh Commandment tonight, Lord
willing).
But now, I want to conclude as
I began: with the gospel of undeserved mercy, the
gospel of great grace for great sinners, the gospel
of healing and hope and new life. You cannot turn
back the hands of time, (and neither can I) but you
and I can turn to Jesus Christ and receive eternal
forgiveness. You cannot undo what you have done,
(and neither can I) but you and I can trust in what
Jesus Christ has done for us and promises to do for
us if we look to Him in faith and trust Him to take
away the guilt of our deeds. Will you cast yourself,
hopeless and helpless, upon His mercy, His mercy,
pure and undeserved, with no excuse and no
explanation, and simply cry out to Him, "Have
mercy upon me, O God, according to Your
lovingkindness, according to the multitude of Your
tender mercies, blot out my transgressions, wash me
thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my
sin"? Will you receive the forgiveness that
Jesus Christ freely offers to you? And will you
offer yourself anew to Him, in true and faithful
love, because His love for you is true and faithful?
Will you turn away from your sins, and follow Him in
newness of life, and, by the power of His Spirit,
seek to live for His glory, because now you know
that He is the great God and Savior, who delights in
showing great grace to great sinners?
Now, in Christ’s name, I
commend you all to God and to the word of His grace;
and unto Him who is able to keep you from falling,
and to present you faultless before the presence of
His glory with exceeding joy, to the only wise God
our Savior, be glory and majesty, dominion, and
power, both now and forever. Amen. |